how to prevent burnout

10 Actionable Tips On How To Prevent Burnout

When you meet with a certain level of success in your job, sooner or later, working long hours without taking time to recharge will likely lead to burnout.

Burnout can leave you feeling tired and resentful. It’s essential to recognize the signs early to pace yourself and be effective at your job.

Successful people know how hard it is to keep up their self-care when they’re riding high on success, so they form habits that help them stay ahead of things. Budgeting time to do the things you love helps keep you fresh.

10 Actionable Tips On How To Prevent Burnout

1. Be on the lookout for warning signs

People feel the effects of burnout in different ways. Perhaps you’re feeling weary and exhausted without the energy necessary to perform. Or maybe you feel sad or stressed out most of the time.

  • Some people experience blurred-vision or difficulty finding words or focusing on anything in front of them (called “tunnel vision”).
  • Or you might worry about work all the time, even when you aren’t working.
  • Once you’ve found the root of your burnout, it’s easier to handle it.

2. Take regular breaks

Anywhere from 10-20 minutes can make all the difference between staying in your zone and falling asleep at your desk. When you feel burnout creeping up, take a break for your health and well-being.

Even if you’re only winding down for five minutes, sit somewhere quiet to think things over.

3. Follow a good sleep pattern

Studies show that people who get less than seven hours of sleep each night are more likely to burn out. If you find yourself falling asleep at your desk or on the subway, try catching up on some zzz’s during weekends.

4. Make regular exercise an essential part of your life

Regular exercise reduces stress and increases energy. If you aren’t a naturally athletic person, you might be surprised to find that exercise isn’t an inconvenient chore.

There are many ways to have fun while making your body feel better! If you can’t get out of the office, try some low-impact exercises like stretches while you’re at your desk.

5. Set some goals

When you know you have something to work toward, it’s easier to get out of bed in the morning. With dreams, you give yourself a reason to go on, a direction for your energy.

6. Try outsourcing

Switch up your workload every once in a while, to take some pressure off yourself. Delegate to coworkers or hire an intern. If you pay someone else to do part of your job, you’ll free up time for yourself—and it will help you think more clearly and creatively.

7. Identify the source of your burnout and fix it

You’ll have a more challenging time beating burnout if you don’t know what’s causing it. When you take some time to reflect, where do you feel tired, stressed, or resentful?

Put some things in writing. Are there things that you’re doing that are causing this feeling? If so, talk to your boss about doing something different and let them know what’s going on.

8. Go on a vacation

Remember: Fun doesn’t have to be expensive. Plan a trip somewhere fun that you can go for a few days. Go for some fresh air, take some time out of your schedule, and return feeling refreshed.

9. Be consistent with your self-care

You can’t expect to get in touch with your feelings and refresh yourself if you don’t take enough time for yourself.

Even a 20-minute break can make all the difference in the world when you’re feeling stressed and overworked.

10. Establish firm boundaries

Don’t let your boss or colleagues push you to work late without saying something first. There’s a thin line between being hard-working and being a slave driver.

Wrapping Up

Remember: successful people don’t just show up for work and do their best. They ensure that they have time to do things that are important to them. They make a healthy, balanced life outside of work.

Plan smart breaks to stay on top of things and be more effective at work. You’ll be glad you did!

how to live a simpler life

14 Useable Tips On How To Live A Simpler, Happier Life

Have you experienced times when you felt overwhelmed, stressed out, and caught in an overly complicated life? Rest assured that others have also had those feelings. Because of this, more and more people are searching for how to live a simpler life.

Living simply means different things to different people. How your neighbor across the street decides to simplify his or her life may be far different than how you would choose to make such a change. And it doesn’t necessarily mean giving up your job or your car or choosing to live in an unheated shack in the woods.

Although you may decide you want to do some of these things, none of them are necessary for you to live a simpler life.

This process is a journey, not something you can do all at once. You can simplify your life with one small change at a time. These suggestions may lead you down the path to living more simply.

14 Actionable Tips On How To Live A Simpler, Happier Life

1. Examine the situations and people that bring stress to your life. Make a list of these. Also, include anything that leaves you feeling overwhelmed or trapped.

2. Consider how you might eliminate involvement in these circumstances or with these people.

3. Can you follow through with disengagement from these stressful situations and individuals? If possible, select the one that you can most easily disconnect from and begin taking steps to do so.

4. Focus on reducing one stressor at a time. It isn’t realistic to think you can do away with all of them at once.
  

5. Next, think about how you spend your money. Do you make unnecessary purchases? Review your bank account debits to see where the bulk of your funds are going.

6. Focus on streamlining your expenses to decrease unwanted stressors. One fairly easy way to live a simpler life is to reduce spending on unnecessary expenditures.

7. Pare down the amount of “stuff” you’ve accumulated. Many people collect a huge amount of belongings.

8. Consider this:  The more stuff you have, the more time you must spend cleaning and taking care of your belongings. Not to mention the space in your home it takes to store it all, or concerns you have that someone might break or even take your stuff!

9. Let go of unused belongings. If you haven’t looked in those boxes in the garage for 5 or 10 years, you can probably disconnect from the items in them without much distress.

10. Begin spending more time outdoors. Returning to nature offers time and opportunity for reflection on your life and feelings.

11. Explore what makes you happiest. What brings you real joy? Maybe spending time with your children or your nieces and nephews is special for you. Perhaps you want to revive a favorite hobby you love.

12. Regard your time as if it was pure gold. What do you do with most of your time? With whom do you spend the bulk of your life? Are you okay with that?

13. Make a decision to spend your precious time doing enjoyable activities. If you do them with others, ensure they’re people you care about and really want to be around.

14. Strengthen your relationships with those you love. Protect your cherished connections to others.


15. Contemplate your eating habits. The food you eat and your nutritional habits are central to your existence.

16. Examine your level of physical activity. A closely connected habit to food intake is exercise. If you find yourself feeling disconnected from your body and its importance in your life, try to do some physical activity each day. Talk to your doctor before starting an exercise program to ensure it’s right for you. Even just walking for twenty minutes a day can bring you great peace of mind.

The path to living a simpler life is connected to returning to your true self. To find inspiration in beginning your own journey, review the above suggestions. Only you can decide your path toward living a simpler life, and you can begin today!

why do i get angry when i drink

why do We get angry when We drink? Hint: It’s Not The Booze

I ‘ve been right where you are, asking the very same question…WHY do I get angry when I drink?

The night that got me to look in the mirror and say enough is enough!

It was my sister’s Jack and Jill.

It was a weird, roller coaster of a night. Sparing the finer details, something happened midway through the night that would have angered any husband or boyfriend.

It’s now the end of the night, we’re all intoxicated of course. The last bit of the party remaining is helping clean up, maybe 20 of us.

The cleanup is coming to an end so we all start congregating in the kitchen area.

What happens next is inevitable, the incident that happened earlier in the night gets brought up. I completely lose all control, cursing and yelling at my sister and my dad in front of 20 other bystanders.

The screaming match ends with me stomping out of the kitchen with raging violence on my mind. Wondering what I can hit that isn’t my sister or dad.

There is an oversized industrial garbage bag completely stuffed just outside the kitchen door. That looks juicy. So I take a run at it as if I’m trying to kick a 50-yard field goal and the whole thing explodes with garbage flying everywhere.

I don’t remember precisely, but there’s a good chance I kicked it a couple more times for good measure to ensure it was empty before stomping out of the building.

When I woke up the next day, I was utterly embarrassed over my actions. I threw a tantrum in front of 20+ family members, future family members, and close friends.

It’s Not The Drinking, It’s You

I tried changing what I drank. People tried to make correlations with my anger and certain types of liquor. It’s the Rum. It’s the Jaggermeister. It’s the…

After this night, I had an insight and I just knew that none of this was true. It wasn’t the drinking causing my anger, it was me.

Sure, there is some evidence to suggest that alcohol provokes anger. But, this doesn’t happen if there isn’t underlying anger ready to be provoked.

Think of the relationship between alcohol and anger as ‘poking the bear’.

Alcohol has the ability to magnify our current state of being or bring out our suppressed emotions.

The happy person gets smilier than usual.

The sad person cries.

Below we’ll get into what you may be suppressing that’s causing your anger as well as other possibilities.

Why You Get Angry When You Drink

When drinking…

The person suppressing resentment gets angry.

The person protecting their ego gets angry.

Why is this?

Suppressed Resentment

This is the one I resonate with the most.

Something magical happened after I forgave my dad, I no longer became an angry drunk. Although I knew my anger when drinking was an inside job, I never would have thought forgiveness was the solution.

How can you know if holding on to resentment may be a potential fire starter for you?

You’ll likely notice, whether you’re drinking or not, you have a tendency to get angry easier than you’d like. Especially with certain people. These are likely the people you’re holding resentment for.

This resentment has gone unattended to and therefore gets triggered and magnified when you’re drinking.

Letting go of resentment isn’t easy, I know from personal experience. But the reward of doing so is unimaginably freeing.

Want to learn more about forgiveness? Check out these 2 posts below

Insights on Forgiveness

Biggest Misconception About Forgiveness

Protecting Your Ego

I can resonate with this one as well, though not nearly as much as resentment.

What is our ego? It’s our self-concept, who we think we are, how we see ourselves in the mirror.

When we have an over-inflated ego, we feel that it must be protected. We propr ourselves up as someone we are not, trying to make ourselves look important, worthy, successful etc. when inside we feel unimportant, unworthy, and unsuccessful.

It takes a lot to protect this false identity we portray to the world, which often includes offense and defense.

When we drink, this over-inflated ego tends to get pumped with more air.

When someone doesn’t agree with us, we feel the need to defend ourselves.

When someone judges us we take it personally and overreact.

When we feel threatened by a potential alpha male or female we go on offense to try and bring them down a peg.

These are just a few of many examples that could be used.

If this sounds like you, you may be wondering what to do next? Welp, seeing through the illusion of our ego is a journey, typically a spiritual one.

To wake up one day and truly see that you aren’t who you think you are.

The best book I’ve read so far about the ego is The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. It’s an eye-opener.

The post below can be a simple place to start:

The Simple Equation That Reveals Who You Really Are

Remember, Anger Is An Inside Job

No matter the reason for your anger when drinking, always remember that it’s an inside job. Your anger is not caused by the drinking, it’s caused by you.

Your anger comes from the inside out. Your drinking merely assists in drawing it out.

So the next time you find yourself asking ‘Why do I get angry when I drink?’, start looking within. All your answers can be found there.

how to become a relationship coach

It’s Easy To Become A Relationship Coach—Here’s How

It’s so easy

Are you ready for it?

Here’s how to become a Relationship Coach…

Call yourself one!

There are no restrictions or regulations in place for the Relationship Coaching profession. Anyone can become a Relationship Coach by calling themselves as such.

The Relationship Coaching profession isn’t alone as this is also the case for other professions such as Nutrition Coaches, Life Coaches, and Health Coaches—and any other type of coach for that matter.

A Better Question Might Be—How Do I Become a Relationship Coach That Can Transform Lives?

Since anyone, aged 2 yrs+ can call themselves a Relationship Coach, how to become one probably isn’t the best question to be asking.

Sure, anyone can become a Relationship Coach—but not everyone can transform the relationships of others in ways they couldn’t have imagined without walking the road of transforming their own relationships and then coaching others to do the same.

This takes personal dedication to the craft of coaching yourself within your own relationships. Evolution into a catalyst for deep change within your own relationships and others.

This my friend, cannot be done through a course from Udemy. You need live interaction with real-world coaches, offering you valuable coaching, feedback, and practice.

I have recommended a valuable resource toward the end of this post as a place for you to start.

On to the informal regulations of Relationship Coaching.

The International Coach Federation

There is a regulating body called the ICF (International Coach Federation) attempting to regulate the coaching industry. However, their accreditation is not recognized by any country as a legitimate licensing body.

Because of this, the Relationship Coaching industry remains unregulated. It’s not mandatory anywhere in the world to be an accredited Relationship Coach.

Is Accreditation Recommended?

There is an ongoing debate about this. In the end, there are valid points to argue on both sides.

Getting certified through an ICF accredited Relationship Coach program does generally indicate the certification quality meets a certain standard.

For example, no accreditation is given to Relationship Coach certifications that don’t include a live teaching component. I 100% agree with this.

Relationship Coaching is not something one can learn by watching hours of video and all of a sudden knowing how to coach another. It takes practice, lots and lots of practice. First, you learn to coach yourself, then you learn to coach another, through practice.

Core Competencies

Any Life Coach Certification that is accredited by the ICF must teach what the ICF calls the Core Competencies.

These 11 core competencies are also debated by coaches. I can understand this because different types of coaches require different approaches.

For example, I believe Holding Space should be a core competency for any coach, but it’s not.

It’s Your Choice Whether to get certified

Whether you want to learn the art of Relationship Coaching through an accredited program or not is ultimately up to you.

Would I recommend calling yourself a Relationship Coach without any high-quality training or practice? Absolutely not.

I surely wouldn’t want to be coached by someone who has no training or received their training from a low-quality certification like what you can find on Udemy.

Do Your Research and Find a reputable certification

Take some time to discover exactly what type of coaching approach you want to take. Make sure it resonates with you.

For example: Do you want to coach singles looking for a relationship? Couples looking to improve their relationship? The following program covers both and much more.

Top Programs

Loveology University

relationship coach certification

Most popular Relationship Coach certification

More info: Loveology University

Relationship Coaching Institute

how to become a relationship coach

Gold standard Relationship Coach certification, ICF accredited, been in business for 25 years, higher ticket program

More info: Relationship Coaching Institute

Have Questions?

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I’d love to help you find your way.

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It’s Easy To Become A Health Coach—Here’s How

It’s so easy

Are you ready for it?

Here’s how to become a health coach…

Call yourself one!

There are no restrictions or regulations in place for the Health Coaching profession. Anyone can become a Health Coach by calling themselves as such.

The Health Coaching profession isn’t alone as this is also the case for other professions such as Nutritionists, Personal Trainers, and Life Coaches—and any other type of coach for that matter.

A Better Question Might Be—How Do I Become a Health Coach That Can Transform Lives?

Since anyone, aged 2 yrs+ can call themselves a Health Coach, how to become one probably isn’t the best question to be asking.

Sure, anyone can become a Health Coach—but not everyone can transform the life of another in ways they couldn’t have imagined without walking the road of transformation themselves and then coaching another to do the same.

This takes personal dedication to the craft of coaching yourself. Evolution into a transformational presence—a catalyst for deep change in another.

This my friend, cannot be done through a course from Udemy. You need live interaction with real-world coaches, offering you valuable coaching, feedback, and practice.

I have recommended a valuable resource toward the end of this post as a place for you to start.

On to the informal regulations of Health Coaching.

American Association of Drugless Practitioners

There is a popular regulating body called the AADP (American Association of Drugless Practitioners) attempting to regulate the health coaching industry. However, their accreditation is not recognized by any country as a legitimate licensing body.

They claim to hold high standards for the schools they approve for accreditation. However, they neglect to be transparent about what those standards are. Take what you will from this but their lack of transparency leads me to believe the accreditation is a smokescreen.

The Health Coaching industry remains unregulated. It’s not mandatory anywhere in the world to be an accredited Health Coach.

Is Accreditation Recommended?

There is an ongoing debate about this. In the end, there are valid points to argue on both sides.

Getting certified through an AADP accredited (or another accrediting board) Health Coach program does generally indicate the certification quality meets a certain standard (according to them).

Given the lack of transparency and surrounding any standards for the schools, accreditation may only be good more insurance purposes. Getting board certified through most accrediting bodies allows you to get insurance.

Health Coaching is not something one can learn by watching hours of video and all of a sudden knowing how to coach another. It takes practice, lots and lots of practice. First, you learn to coach yourself, then you learn to coach another, through practice.

It’s Your Choice Whether to get certified

Whether you want to learn the art of Health Coaching through an accredited program or not is ultimately up to you.

Would I recommend calling yourself a Health Coach without any high-quality training or practice? Absolutely not.

I surely wouldn’t want to be coached by someone who has no training or received their training from a low-quality certification like what you can find on Udemy.

Do Your Research and Find a reputable certification

Take some time to discover exactly what type of coaching approach you want to take. Make sure it resonates with you.

For example:

I wrote a long detailed post comparing 7 online Health Coach Certification programs and each of the programs offers a slightly different approach.

Some Recommended Programs

Institute For The Psychology of Eating

health coach certification online

Gold standard health coach program, nothing compares, comes at a cost

More info: Institute For The Psychology of Eating Review

Primal Health Coach Institute

online health coach certification (1)

Developed by Mark Sisson, the world leader in primal living

More info: Primal Health Coach Institute Review

Natural Wellness Academy

health coach certification (2)

A more intimate program that includes mentorship and coaching. Highly recommended

More info: Natural Wellness Academy Review

Have Questions?

Feel free to reach out to me here.

I’d love to help you find your way.

how to become a herbalist

It’s Easy To Become A Herbalist—Here’s How

It’s so easy

Are you ready for it?

Here’s how to become a herbalist…

Call yourself one!

There are no restrictions or regulations in place for the Herbalist profession. Anyone can become a herbalist by calling themselves as such.

This means that anyone who chooses to become a herbalist can do so without the need to be certified. However, there are some practitioners who are certified to be herbalists. This is highly recommended when working with clients and other practitioners to ensure their safety.

The herbalist profession isn’t alone as this is also the case for other professions such as Nutritionists, Personal Trainers, and Health Coaches—and any other type of coach for that matter.

A Better Question Might Be—How Do I Become a Herbalist That Can Transform Lives?

Since anyone, aged 2 yrs+ can call themselves a herbalist, how to become one probably isn’t the best question to be asking.

Sure, anyone can become a herbalist—but not everyone can use the intricacies and science behind herbalism in a safe and highly effective manner with other people.

This takes personal dedication to the craft of herbalism.

Some people might choose to use herbs to cure common ailments. Some people might choose to give people herbal remedies so that they can feel better. Some people might choose to help people by making herbal remedies that are used in the home.

This my friend, cannot be done through a course from Udemy. You need a well-structured course that covers all the fine details as there is an abundance to learn. We’re talking 100’s of hours of studying and application to truly understand how to help others through herbalism.

I have recommended a valuable resource toward the end of this post as a place for you to start.

On to the informal regulations of Herbalism.

The American Herbalist Guild

There is a regulating body called the AHG (American Herbalist Guild) attempting to regulate the herbalist industry. However, their accreditation is not recognized by any country as a legitimate licensing body.

Because of this, the Herbalist industry remains unregulated. It’s not mandatory anywhere in the world to be an accredited Herbalist.

AHG Core Competencies

  • Approximately 800 hours of formal education (given the looseness of this standard it’s hard to take it as a strict standard)
  • A working knowledge of at least 150 medicinal herbs. You will demonstrate your knowledge by providing information about the clinical application of herbs from one of three categories of materia medica: Western, Ayurvedic, or Traditional Chinese Medicine.
  • A practical understanding of human anatomy, physiology, pathophysiology, and basic plant chemistry, obtained through independent or formal education, and applied in your differential assessment of cases.
  • Approximately 400 hours of clinical experience obtained through independent practice, structured mentorship, supervised clinical training as part of an academic program, or a combination of these experiences.
  • Demonstrated ability to conduct a comprehensive intake, compile a case history, and provide a differential assessment by presenting three case histories from your practice.
  • Show your understanding of your scope of practice and personal practice limitations by supplying the names and contact information for three health care practitioners with whom you consult or to whom you refer clients when a case is beyond your scope of practice.
  • Two letters of recommendation from colleagues familiar with your training and experience as a clinical herbalist. At least one letter of recommendation should be from one of your primary botanical medicine instructors. If this is not possible, you will need to provide a detailed explanation.
  • A demonstrated commitment to ongoing botanical medicine education.

Is Accreditation Recommended?

There is an ongoing debate about this. In the end, there are valid points to argue on both sides.

Getting certified through an AHG accredited Herbalist program does generally indicate the certification quality meets a certain standard.

Herbalism is not something one can learn by watching hours of video and all of a sudden knowing how to use herbalism with another. It takes practice, lots and lots of practice and application. First, you learn to use herbalism with yourself, then you learn to use it with another.

It’s Your Choice Whether to get certified

Whether you want to learn the science of herbalism through an accredited program or not is ultimately up to you.

Would I recommend calling yourself a Herbalist without any high-quality training or practice? Absolutely not.

I surely wouldn’t want to work with someone who has no training or received their training from a low-quality certification like what you can find on Udemy.

Do Your Research and Find a reputable certification

Take some time to discover exactly what you’re looking for in a program. Make sure it resonates with you.

For example:

I wrote a long detailed post comparing 3 amazing online Herbalist Certification programs and each of the programs offers a slightly different approach.

Some Recommended Programs

Herbal Academy

herbalist certification

A very well-rounded and in-depth program with a proven track record, and it’s quite affordable compared to its’ competitors.

More info: Herbal Academy Review

The Chestnut School of Herbal Medicine

herbalist course online

Similar to Herbal Academy with a higher price tag.

More info: Chestnut School of Herbal Medicine Review

Pacific Rim College

herbalist school

This program is rated at 500+ hours less than the other 2 programs but has a similar price tag, not recommended.

More info: Pacific Rim College Review


Have Questions?

Feel free to reach out to me here.

I’d love to help you find your way.

how to become a meditation teacher

It’s Easy To Become A Meditation Teacher—Here’s How

It’s so easy

Are you ready for it?

Here’s how to become a Meditation Teacher…

Call yourself one!

There are no restrictions or regulations in place for Meditation Teachers and coaches. Anyone can become a Meditation Teacher by calling themselves as such.

The Meditation teaching profession isn’t alone as this is also the case for other professions such as Life Coaches, Nutritionists, Personal Trainers, and Health Coaches—and any other type of coach for that matter.

A Better Question Might Be—How Do I Become a Meditation Teacher That Can Transform Lives?

Since anyone, aged 2 yrs+ can call themselves a Meditation Teacher, how to become one probably isn’t the best question to be asking.

Sure, anyone can become a Meditation Teacher—but not everyone can transform the life of another in ways they couldn’t have imagined without walking the road of transformation through Meditation and then teaching it to another.

This takes personal dedication to master the practice of meditation yourself. Evolution into a calm presence—a catalyst for deep mental and spiritual shifts in another.

This my friend, cannot be done simply through a course from Udemy. You need ongoing practice and dedication toward your own meditation practice.

I have recommended a valuable resource toward the end of this post as a place for you to start.

On to the informal regulations of Meditation Teaching.

International Mindfulness and Meditation Alliance

There is a regulating body called the International Mindfulness and Meditation Alliance attempting to regulate the meditation teaching industry. However, their accreditation is not recognized by any country as a legitimate licensing body.

Because of this, the meditation teaching industry remains unregulated. It’s not mandatory anywhere in the world to be an accredited Meditation Teacher in order to teach meditation.

Is Accreditation Recommended?

Like many other unregulated industries, there is an ongoing debate about this. In the end, there are valid points to argue on both sides.

Getting certified through an International Mindfulness and Meditation Alliance accredited Meditation Teacher program does generally indicate the certification quality meets a certain standard.

Meditation is not something one can learn by watching hours of video and all of a sudden knowing how to teach meditation to another. It takes practice, lots and lots of practice. First, you learn to practice meditation yourself, then you learn to guide another, through practice.

It’s Your Choice Whether to get certified

Whether you want to master the art of Meditation Teacher through an accredited program or not is ultimately up to you.

Would I recommend calling yourself a Meditation Teacher without any high-quality training or ongoing practice? Absolutely not.

I surely wouldn’t want to be taught meditation by someone who has no training or received their training from a low-quality certification like what you can find on Udemy.

Do Your Research and Find a reputable certification

Luckily for you, I’ve done some research and came across an amazing, cost-effective, and internationally accredited Meditation Teacher certification.

School of Positive Transformation

mindfulness training certification

Internationally Accredited and cost-effective

More info: School of Positive Transformation Review

Natural Wellness Academy

Natural Wellness Academy Review

Dual certification with mentorship

More info: Natural Wellness Academy Review

Sounds True

meditation certification online

Internationally Accredited and taught by popular field leaders

More info: Sounds True Review

Have Questions?

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I’d love to help you find your way.

how to become a reiki master

It’s Easy To Become A Reiki Master Healer—Here’s How

It’s so easy

Are you ready for it?

Here’s how to become a Reiki Master Healer…

Call yourself one!

There are no restrictions or regulations in place for Reiki Master Healers and practitioners. Anyone can become a Reiki Master Healer by calling themselves as such.

The Reiki healing profession isn’t alone as this is also the case for other professions such as Life Coaches, Nutritionists, Personal Trainers, and Health Coaches—and any other type of coach for that matter.

A Better Question Might Be—How Do I Become a Reiki Master Healer That Can Transform Lives?

Since anyone, aged 2 yrs+ can call themselves a Reiki Master Healer or Reiki Practitioner, how to become one probably isn’t the best question to be asking.

Sure, anyone can become a Reiki Master Healer—but not everyone can transform the life of another in ways they couldn’t have imagined without walking the road of healing through Reiki healing themselves and then healing another.

This takes personal dedication to master the craft of Reiki yourself. Evolution into a healing presence—a catalyst for deep energy shifts in another.

This my friend, cannot be done simply through a course from Udemy. You need ongoing practice and dedication toward your own energy healing.

I have recommended a valuable resource toward the end of this post as a place for you to start.

On to the informal regulations of Reiki healing.

The Reiki Healing Association

There is a regulating body called the Reiki Healing Association attempting to regulate the Reiki healing industry. However, their accreditation is not recognized by any country as a legitimate licensing body.

Because of this, the Reiki healing industry remains unregulated. It’s not mandatory anywhere in the world to be an accredited Reiki Master Healer

Is Accreditation Recommended?

There is an ongoing debate about this. In the end, there are valid points to argue on both sides.

Getting certified through a Reiking Healing Association accredited Reiki Master Practitioner program does generally indicate the certification quality meets a certain standard.

For example, no accreditation is given to Reiki Master Healers who don’t complete an attunement. I 100% agree with this.

Reiki is not something one can learn by watching hours of video and all of a sudden know how to heal the energy of themselves or another. It takes practice, lots and lots of practice. First, you learn to perform Reiki on yourself, then you learn to heal another, through practice.

Distance Attunements

Any Reiki Master Healer Certification that is accredited by the Reiki Healing Association must have completed their attunements with a Reiki Master.

These days, most people prefer learning online as opposed to in-person due to convenience and it’s usually cheaper. But, can you get an attunement from an online Reiki Master program?

Historically, attunements were thought to only be done in person even though one of the core beliefs of Reiki Level 2 is that Reiki can be sent across time and space.

Based on much anecdotal evidence, distance attunements do indeed seem to work and are now recognized for accreditation through the Reiki Healing Association.

It’s Your Choice Whether to get certified

Whether you want to master the art of Reiki healing through an accredited program or not is ultimately up to you.

Would I recommend calling yourself a Reiki Master Healer without any high-quality training or ongoing practice? Absolutely not.

I surely wouldn’t want to be healed by someone who has no training or received their training from a low-quality certification like what you can find on Udemy.

Do Your Research and Find a reputable certification

Luckily for you, I’ve done some research and came across an amazing, cost-effective, and internationally accredited Reiki Master Practitioner certification.

Reiki Store

how to become a reiki master

Internationally Accredited and all online.

More info: Reiki Store Review

Have Questions?

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I’d love to help you find your way.

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How To Take Back Control of Your Life

Not feeling in control of your life is one of the most disheartening and self-defeating predicaments you can be in.

You feel a victim to life and the circumstances within it.

You’re always asking yourself “what’s the point?” (since I’m not in control anyway)

I’d be lying if I said there’s a 5-step process to take back control of your life, or that this article will miraculously give you a sense of control by the end.

There are. however, a few things for you to understand that may help you wake up, shift a perspective, or trigger an insight.

I think the most important thing to understand first is that control is an illusion, so that’s where I’ll begin.

Understand That Control is an Illusion

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This may be uncharted and potentially uncomfortable territory for you, but I encourage you to soak it in with an open mind. To question your current beliefs surrounding control.

I’m close with someone who believes in God and Jesus. Although I’m not religious myself, I can relate through spirituality. I simply use different labels that point to the same source.

This person is a strong Type A personality. Crosses all their T’s and dots all their I’s. Their sense of control gets thrown for a loop if plans don’t go the way they envisioned or predicted.

The other day they opened up to me about a challenge they’re having with dipping their toes into entrepreneurship. A challenge most (if not all) entrepreneurs have at some point in time—facing the many unpredictabilities. Ultimately, facing the unknown.

They feel a lack of control with not being able to predict the outcome, and these feelings are valid and real. Their ego built a wall of resistance once it realized the illusion of control and wants to retreat. This is very common when we are faced with the unknown.

As I told them, the hard truth is this “you’re religious, right? So you know that at any moment if God wants to take you from this earth he will, right? None of us know when that will be, it could be 30 sec from now, tomorrow, or 30 years from now. We simply don’t know, it’s not in our control. We live with this whether we choose to accept it or not. We give ourselves a sense of control by leading an immaculate lifestyle, which may or may not affect when it’s our time. Our actions can improve our chances but we don’t control them.”

OK, you might be thinking “I may die tomorrow without my consent, how does this help me feel more in control?”

By seeing that you’re not in control, that you’ve been duped by your ego to thinking it’s in control.

Control is an illusion our ego creates to feel more secure. It’s purely made of thought, there’s no ultimate truth to it.

There’s no steering wheel of life to grasp onto so we can feel in control

And as I told this person above, there’s an old religious saying “Let go and let God.”

Sometimes all the signs are given for us to follow a certain path. We have an inner knowing that this is our path. But there’s one big problem, we don’t know where it’ll lead us. It’s a path that requires faith and trust in the source that showed us the path.

Befriend The Unknown

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For many of us, assembling a sense of control is our way of resisting the discomfort of the unknown. Leading us to believe that thinking we’re in control will offset an unknown future.

There’s one problem, humans are absolutely terrible at predicting the future.

You can find evidence of this when you watch your thoughts every day and observe how many times you attempt to rehearse or predict moments in the future.

Then, after the moments arrive look back and see what your batting average is.

The truth is, all we ever know is now. Not one second from now, not even a millisecond from now, just now.

We can’t even predict what thought will pop into our head a second from now let alone what may happen to us, for us, or around us.

Trying to control the uncontrollable will only lead to suffering and a feeling of being out of control.

I propose a shift in perspective, instead of trying to control your life, what if you stopped trying and started trusting?

Stop Trying and Learn To Start Trusting

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Trust what or who you may ask?

Well, yourself firstly.

Do you trust yourself with your life?

If not, this is a foundational place for you to begin your journey. This process is beyond the scope of this post, but I will say this, you must get to know your higher self. The unchanging you that is beyond the ego, the intuitive you that guides with an inner knowing.

And, if you’re religious, you may also trust God or Jesus to light your way.

Trust what? Life.

Life may seem an untrustworthy source for you if you have had a rough history. It’s perfectly valid for you to feel this way.

It may seem like life hasn’t had your back, threw you under the bus, chewed you up, and spit you out.

Yet, you’re still here, searching for answers. If you weren’t strong enough you wouldn’t have made it this far, but you did.

Life doesn’t challenge us with anything we can’t handle. We’re given a choice of how to handle or not handle.

We’re given a gift called thought that allows us to view our past and think about what it means for our future.

How we think today about what happened yesterday will create our tomorrow

Trust and control cannot coexist in the same space

Control is a manifestation of the ego while trust is innate to your higher self.

Trust is unwavering and unchanging. It just is.

Control has a definition that changes according to our thoughts and feelings at any given moment.

I encourage you to focus your energy on building trust instead of grasping for control.

Ditch Control, Invite Love

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Control is an egocentric concept. Providing it with a sense of being able to predict the future by attempting to control the present moment.

We get so caught up in trying to control the present moment to

Let go of trying to control the way and let love light the way

What Is It That You Really Want?

More to come!

How To Stop Feeling Worthless

How To Stop Feeling Worthless (There’s No step-by-step)

I see you…

I feel you…

You’re not alone in feeling worthless…

Before you read any further I want you to know that you are worthy.

How do I know? You were born.

Believe it or not, we’re all born as equals.

Your sense of worth is not a genetic predisposition—yet it is inherited. Sounds paradoxical right?

If your sense of worth wasn’t inherited through your genes, how did you develop your sense of worth?

You learned it.

How We Inherit Our Sense of Worth

Your sense of worth has been inherited through past conditioning. More specifically, through your attachment to particular thoughts and emotions about certain experiences, thus creating a core limiting belief that appears to be true and screams “I’m not worthy!”.

You’re not alone in this thinking, this is one of the most common limiting core beliefs that people hold.

Our sense of worth develops as we create a sense of self, aka our ego. You can think our your sense of self as who you think you are.

Our ego is craving an identity by the time we enter our first school years. This is how far back you need to reflect on how your lack of self-worth developed.

What can influence our Lack of worth?

  • emotionally absent parents
  • verbal, emotional, physical and sexual abuse
  • being bullied
  • parents divorce
  • abandonment
  • lack of love and nurturing
  • past criticism
  • any sort of childhood trauma

The impact of holding this belief is enormous as you well know. It affects every area of your life; relationships, career, self-esteem, communication, and your ability to love and be loved.

How To Stop Feeling Worthless

There’s no step-by-step process to end this feeling, I’m sorry to say.

For myself, it was a spiritual journey of awakening that had me see through this illusion. Once I realized that my ego is only who I ‘think’ I am, I was able to break free of the sense of unworthiness that followed me everywhere.

For you, it may be a different journey. Here are some places to start:

Validate What Your Feeling

It’s OK to feel what you’re feeling. It’s perfectly normal to be having the experience you are. This is called emotional validation.

It’s so important to allow our emotional experiences to happen as they are without judgment. Validating your feelings helps build a sense of worth.

If you deny your feelings or criticize them this will re-enforce the belief that you’re not worthy. That you’re not worth the love you can offer yourself by accepting your experience.

Denying yourself will only re-affirm that you’re not worthy.

It’s Your Thinking

First, I want you to know I’m not minimizing your experience by asking you to explore this. Your experience is very real and valid.

What I’d like you to explore is the idea that if you couldn’t think, you also couldn’t feel worthless. It’s your thinking that makes it so.

And your thoughts are only true if you believe them.

I encourage you to question your thoughts, meet them with a curious mind.

Is it true?

How can you absolutely know it’s true?

Are there any other possibilities to what could be true?

What evidence supports this belief?

What evidence doesn’t support it?

You may just find that it’s not as true as you thought.

Create Distance

What do I mean by this?

Research shows us that the brain doesn’t know the difference between what’s real and what’s imagined.

When we get too close to our thoughts they appear to be so real that they’re actually happening.

When you get so close to the thought of ‘I’m not worthy’ it becomes so real that it’s happening right now. The closer you get, the stronger the emotional reaction you’ll have.

I encourage you to sit in silence and take a few very slow deep breaths in through your nose and out through your mouth. Focus on being present and tune into how your breathing feels.

This will ground you in peace and a sense of OKness.

Now observe your thoughts from this higher level of awareness, watch them at a distance.

Be curious as to how they create your experience and your emotions.

See how they’re not you, see how they’re not necessarily true.